INSPIRING WORDS

Be the change you wish to see in the world.-Ghandi

I have always loved quotes and for a few years I have collected my favourites. I find that often they are words that are very thought provoking. I love sayings, expressions, or quotes that make you stop and think. Often you will come across one that really fits your current situation and helps you to see things more clearly in another light. A good example is the one above by Ghandi. We often go on about how we wish things were different in the world such as how children behave these days or their attitudes. Well, if you read this quote what you might take from it is that instead of sitting back and wishing for changes to be made take an active role to make them happen. Instead of criticizing behaviours in others step up and set a good example. Be a role model that others can emulate. Instead of expressing your disgust at a child's lack of respect, be the respectful person you wish them to be and show by setting an example. Treat them with respect and expect it in return. When they speak, listen. Show that you do consider what they have to say worth listening to and respond appropriately. Let them know that they too must give you your chance to speak and listen in return. It's a simple matter of respect. We don't tune out our peers so why should we do that to our youth.

A good example was one day I went into a convenience store for a purchase. When I walked up to the counter there was a young boy ahead of me patiently waiting to pay for his purchase. The store clerk looked right over his head and proceeded to serve me. I quickly commented that the young man was first in line and awaiting his turn. In a bit of a 'sniff' she served the young man first. Here, truly is a good example of lack of respect. What was she teaching him?


Okay, so when Ghandi wrote this quote the intention might have been something more intense such as politics but the words themselves can apply to many of life's situations. So instead of bemoaning the problems in the world, do your part to help bring about change. As I often say, maybe a bit too often...two steps forward, one step back will eventually get you there...